Episode 53. 13 signs of spiritual maturity Part 4.
Part 4. Being at home for yourself and not getting pulled into other people's realities. Other people's emotions and dramas can cause us to self-abandon and be with them in their stories. This causes us to leak energy and leak consciousness.
Being at home for ourselves and assisting those in need from a place of empowerment serves both parties much better. When we have a dysfunctional inner nurturer we tend to want to fix and save the world. We can see it as a noble cause because we see what people need or needs fixing. However, assisting from an empowered place allows you to follow the inspiration to help without losing yourself in the process.
An example is to throw a drowning person a life saver rather than jumping in with them. Your greatest gift to the world is to be the light for those around you by leading by example from a place of wholeness.